Oral Herpes Support Group

The herpes simplex virus is a virus that manifests itself in two common infections, each marked by painful, watery blisters in the skin, mouth, or lips. The disease is contagious, particularly during an outbreak, and is incurable with present technology. Stress, increased exposure to the sun, viral infections, and facial injuries may increase the chance and severity of...

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What do I do NOW??

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Well, I have had a full 5 years and some months of a crazy, out of control life style. (Long Story) And I started having sex only when I was 13. (Not too long ago) I moved from Colorado this last July to try and change all of that. Then, I had to break it to my Aunt and Uncle (New Loving Family) that I had had something wrong with me for a while. I knew it had to be abnormal. I jsut didn't know for sure what it was. Well, in short, I found out recently that I have HSV-2. And all of a sudden, as if hit by a boulder, I feel like LIFE FOR ME IS OVER! What about a future lover? What about kids? This medication? The fear of passing it through the toilet? How else can I pass it? Who did I get it from? Who did I give it to? (those possibilities are ENDLESS!!) NO ONE in Colorado knows except for my older sis, mom and unfortunately dad. Do I let someone know? Should I be THE ONE to let soemone know and try to keep it from becoming an epidemic in its own?? Oh Lordy!! HELP!!!
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deleted_user
deleted_user
I do not have HSV2, I suffer from HSV1 but from my understanding you need constant moisture in order for the virus to survive in order for it to transmit to somebody else (so you are pretty safe on the toilet seat). The virus is also only communicable when there is an active outbreak (blisters), I personally would probably not tell anybody (unless I was planning on being intimate with them).
deleted_user
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thank you for the reply :)
I just can't seem to make it all sink in at once that it will eventually be a routine, or 'normal' thing. Ya know? I'm just always having it linger over my every thought. And as of right now, I want to find some one to be with, and I might have a chance with someone, but I have never 'said no' to anyone (if you get what I mean). It jsut seems like if I don't have sex with someone when they want me to, that They will never like me. :( Oh well.
meme88
meme88
1# she complety right.. don't worry. Though befor u come intimate tell em or when u start datein cuz ya.. if ur datein sumone and dont tell them at the start they kinda get mad, when ya tell them befor u get intimate. LOL I learnt that one on my onw
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