Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) Support Group

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) an ongoing pattern of disobedient, hostile, and defiant behavior toward authority figures that goes beyond the bounds of normal childhood behavior. When a child cannot seem to control his anger or frustration, even over what seems to be trivial or simple to others, the child will often react in violent or negative ways to his own...

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Tre' has had a huge meltdown

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He done pretty good and had earned back a couple stars from earlier.
But the teacher gets here and he totaly freaks out. Didn't do any work. Got up on the table and kicked at the teacher.
So I have sacked up every toy in the house the starts were takes and he doesn't get to go on his weekly hunting trip.
So he is in the house all day long with me.
He even escaped the house and ran out to my mom and dads. So I had to go get him.
My dad is a huge part of his life. So he doesn't get time with him today.
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Keep strong! You are doing great.

My only question is: how old is your son? If he's young, taking things away for more than that day is a long consequence for one day's misbehavior...
If not, never mind. I think in terms of my son and he's 5.
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Hugs to ya,when he is calm ask him why he did this if he can explain and see if he apoligises,you said 3 things were taken away maybe for an outburt one should and if he behaves in a certain time give him a reward
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This is the worst he had ever acted. So he needed major punishment. He is 7 .

I do give rewards once they are earned back.
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