if they want him to be homebound, then they need to do their part and be thee on time. you have set your schedules aside to accomdate them into your home, your child is expecting them and they cannot even be on time, structure is very important to these kids, these people cannot just show up when they feel like it, they have an obligation to your child,. I would be doing some complaining,, if he broke down or knoew he was going to be running behind,, he needs to call, do not let these people do thisto you,, AS far as when he goes back to school, your child has a right to an educaton, they have to meet his needs , if they have to get him a one on one aide then they are responsible for that, make sure his rights are being met, yes the teacher has her handsd full, that is why she nneds the support in the room, for kids like this. do not let them tell you that he cannot attend school because of his behaviors, kids like this are high maintaince, but schools need to realize they are going to have kids like this, have someone there for them/ good luck

I hope that the person showed up for your and you son's sake. You need to tell her that it is VERY important that she's on time for HIS sake, as well as giving you some respite. I'm sorry you're having such a tough time right now. You can pull through.