This is all new to us, so we are lost at this time. Life has took a turn, a big turn. I just don't know where to start. But I know I can't live like this. I cry almost everyday and this has affected my other two children and my husband to the point, well I don't even know anymore. Giovanni (Gio) is 8 now, but the symptoms came on fast and aggressive. He was having migraines, so we took him to a neurologist, who prescribed an old allergy medicine which seemed to help. On the follow-up appointment, we went over his behavioral issues, and they were quick to prescribe seroquil. I did pick up the med, but only gave him one pill, so I went to the pediatrician the next day, who told me to stop giving it, and to seek a child Psychiatrist and/or Phycologist. We did, filled out numerous forms, met with the Psychiatrist, who after a long visit with us and Gio, told us he had ODD with anxiety and aggression along with Grandeosa ( he is always right, you are always wrong). He reviewed alot of medications with us. Safety is #one for me. My husband just wants a quick cure. He told us to go home, review online about ODD and the meds, but he thinks that the Tenex would be the best for Gio. Also said we could consider counseling. Do I get the school involved? My friends and family think this is just something Gio is going through. We know well different. Where do we start? I am exhausted. I feel like the life is slowly being drained out of me. My husband and I aren't on the same page which is causing some marital problems?// The other kids don't know how to deal with this, they are always screaming at Gio and fighting with him. Life is a huge nasty circus right now. I want to go home....
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