My problem is always thinking what others think about me, for example, if i make a comment, or a joke afterwards i wonder what if the person thought this or that. And afterwards i feel so anxious and i want to ask for reassurance to make sure the person didnt take the wrong way,or thought bad about me. And after i ask for reassurance, then i start worring what they thought of me for asking for reassuarance, and i feel so dumb. Then i try to put myself on the other person shoes to see what they problably thought if they were to ask me the same questiont i asked.And after i overcome that fear another one with a diffrent person comes up. For instance this afternoon i was having a conversation with my son and i told him that my new husband doesnt like when i stick my tounge out, that it is very uncomfortable for him, and he asked me then how you guys make out? And i just said well just not being so wild his more of a delicate person. And now im worried what my son thinks about my husband by telling him that.Im stuck with the WHAT IF" Help anyone out there is having the same problem, Should i stop asking for reassurance. Is it somthing i should stop worring?
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