I'm having a problem trying to figure out weather or not this is an obsession or just being human. I lost my husband 14 months ago to death. I'm doing pretty good with it now as time does heal...but I met this guy a week ago and we talk for hours on the phone. The topic of sex came up and I know we both want to get together. I'm afraid that if I give into the physical urges I'll feel guilty tomorrow which usally leads to suicidal thoughts. I'm scared!!! Any one with any suggestions. I want to I just don't need another regret in my life.
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