My mom is always complaining about how my stepfather cant support her and she wants to leave him ... basically she says she loves him, but just doesnt love him enough to be poor and she needs someone who can take care of her financially. she has a liver disease but it is not effecting her right now so she CAN actually work any desk job just fine! ... but she has terrible luck with jobs, its really weird ... so they are both in debt ... its just a mess. i feel bad for my step father cuz he is a really great guy and he loves my mom a lot but it must suck for him never knowing if she is going to kick him out or not over this ... but obviously i will be loyal to my mom before anyone else because she is my mom! but i complained to people about it today because i truly think its shallow to leave someone over money ... so when i posted this as a question on y! answers i got a few responses calling my mom shallow and a gold digger and making women look bad ... it was just mean. thats my mom and i hate that people would be so insensitive to say such things ... so now i feel guilty that i made my mom look so bad and its giving me anxiety and i want to forgive myself but i am mentally obsessing :-( i dont agree with her, but i'm not her, and i dont know what goes on behind the scenes ... and i guess she cant help if she doesnt love him enough to put up with this ... but it confuses me why she married him to begin with because it hasnt been that long ... maybe 5 years.
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