Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Support Group
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a psychiatric disorder, more specifically, an anxiety disorder. OCD is manifested in a variety of forms, but is most commonly characterized by a subject's obsessive (repetitive, distressing, intrusive) thoughts and related compulsions (tasks or rituals) which attempt to neutralize the obsessions.
I was getting over my humiliation about getting drunk and making a fool of myself wih coworkers.
But now, I am experiencing rejection.
The guy I have a crush on mentioned he was having a party the night we were all drinking. Then, I didn't hear much more about it. It was supposed to be this friday - actually another coworker is leaving. this time is a happy hour. I plan on one beer and meeting my friend for a movie.
Anyhow, I said to a female coworker, I guess John is not having a party and she changed the subject. Then my coworker behind me is good friends with him. From things I have overheard, i think he is having it Saturday night and I am not invited. It's not just his rejection but everyone will know I am not invited and it makes me feel like a social pariah. it's affecting my concentration at work. I feel so low about it. I guess I must have really freaked him out the night we were all drinking. I feel like my social value was lowered and I wish I could find a way to rise above it and keep my chin up and not seem like I care. I don't know what to do. I feel so awful. I am sorry to bore people- I posted this on the depression forum yesterday and now I am even more upset today.
But now, I am experiencing rejection.
The guy I have a crush on mentioned he was having a party the night we were all drinking. Then, I didn't hear much more about it. It was supposed to be this friday - actually another coworker is leaving. this time is a happy hour. I plan on one beer and meeting my friend for a movie.
Anyhow, I said to a female coworker, I guess John is not having a party and she changed the subject. Then my coworker behind me is good friends with him. From things I have overheard, i think he is having it Saturday night and I am not invited. It's not just his rejection but everyone will know I am not invited and it makes me feel like a social pariah. it's affecting my concentration at work. I feel so low about it. I guess I must have really freaked him out the night we were all drinking. I feel like my social value was lowered and I wish I could find a way to rise above it and keep my chin up and not seem like I care. I don't know what to do. I feel so awful. I am sorry to bore people- I posted this on the depression forum yesterday and now I am even more upset today.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I would pray on this with the Lord and i am sure he will guide you in the right direction to what you should do or say.
I think it would be a good thing if you did take John aside and apologise. It would make you feel better. Perhaps you could say you understand why he hasn't invited you and don't blame him. If he does invite you...perhaps not go..say you are not well..or something....if he doesn't... then...believe it of not...this will all blow over...people will forget...there will be something else to talk about...honest..thats how it goes. so...try to stop feeling so awful if you possibly can. This is not nearly as important to the others as it is to you.
Do hope you feel better soon.