I'm here for you.

I'm sorry...I'm here if you want to talk

You can msg me also. I know what u must be going through

I have a lot of thoughts, feelings, and urges too! I'm married, so I can't act on them. Sometimes I do wonder if the thoughts will go away if I act on them, but I don't know...

You mentioned the homosexual thoughts before. Is there a girl that is close to you that you would consider trying something with? That would get it out of your system and that way you don't have to think about it anymore. If it is someone who you are unsure how they feel about it, I wouldn't risk the friendship over it though.

The way I see it is that our thoughts are ours. We can think anything we want to. Try not to worry about the thoughts, just let them come and go.

JOHNMD that totally just triggered my ocd, obv I am not gay I just get the thoughts that feel so real, but no I will never have sex with a girl so don't say I am gonna go do something with a girl when I am NOT !

JOHNMD that totally just triggered my ocd, obv I am not gay I just get the thoughts that feel so real, but no I will never have sex with a girl so don't say I am gonna go do something with a girl when I am NOT !

I know. I've done that before. I've thought about things I didn't even want to, but I couldn't help it! I just get over it, somehow. I think I try to make myself obsessed with something else, but I don't remember for sure...

Sorry, I hope I didn't offend you or anything. I totally misinterpreted your post and thought you were unsure about your feelings. My bad thoughts come a lot at night when I'm not busy. To get rid of them I try to clean or watch tv to distract my mind. You are not going to act on your thoughts and they are irrational.

Again, I'm sorry...

I know how you feel....I have felt exactly the same. I am a 46-year old male and spent almost 40 years strugging with what I considered "filthy and perverted" thoughts.
Yes: I am gay (NOT saying you are!) and am
at last enjoying some measure of peace. I am a low-key, moderate person and I guess
I was afraid of being lumped in with the
stereotype of the effeminate, prancing
queen (think 'Leave Britney alone!' :)

My daughter has these sexual thoughts about liking the same sex. Her psychatrist said this was normal the OCD is questioning her about her adolescence, for her to keep a diary and jot all the thoughts and compulsions in it. Sometimes she has dreams as if someone is in the bed touching her and she usually wakes up yelling. Her doctor has increased her LOVAN to see if she sleeps better.ONLY TIME WILL TELL.

I have those thoughts to...I just keep thinking about other girls and what they would look like naked and how the would be in bed. I just don't know how to handle it...if you ever need to talk i am here.

Been there and done that. I know how you feel, I know its hard, but it will get better. Hang in there.

After I expressed how I would think bad thoughts and have the bad dreams and all...someone commented to me that you cannot control what you dream and sometimes you can't control your thoughts. Just because you're thinking something bad unintentionally, that doesn't mean you want to do it. It just means you have a few problems to address. It's going to be okay.

i don't mean to be rude but i can't help but feel personally hurt that thoughts about someone of the same sex are being equated to perversions on par with rape and incest etc. "horrid sexual thoughts" I am a lesbian and my ocd involves having thoughts of being sexual with men and women and potentially contracting a disease that i could give to my partner. I am not here to judge your ocd, but i have intrusive thoughts of sleeping with men which is not my preference but i do not represent it as being ghastly and depraved simply because it is a man. Really, whether it is your intention to or not, many of you are sounding incredibly homophobic. sometimes ocd is about thoughts of doing the last thing on earth that you would do, for me that is sleeping with a man, and very clearly for all of you that is sleeping with a same-sex partner, you are not gay, i am not heterosexual, its the ocd.

I can so relate. I have been struggling with this since I was 17. I am now 37. I have kissed other girls plenty of times as I used to go to gay clubs with my friends. It didn't do much for me and the obsessions surely haven't ended. Feel free to email me if you want to chat.