Was hoping someone could give me some input. I am due to marry my fiance in a month. We never lived together and recently purchased a home. He is not a tapper or has alot of rituals yet there has been countless arguements about money as of late. He has told me he has OCD but I guess I never realized how severe it is. Everything has to be good for him in his life and I feel like he is subtley changing me. It has always been my behvaior or "moodiness" that causes a fight. The littlest thing or remark can cause him to withdraw and not talk to me. He called off the wedding in Feb. but I convinced him not to. I love this man and was thinking I could cope with his OCD. Does anyone have any suggestions for coping with a spouse who has OCD. I am afraid that things will only get worse since now he is requesting a prenup and is approaching our marriage by a series of plusses and minuses financially. Also, is verbal manipulation common with those who have ocd? Thank you so much for any replies, since this is all very new to me. I am afraid to go through with the marriage.
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