I have noticed that I seem to back away and or sabotage friendships and relationships when the other person gets too close. Maybe because of my fear of uncertainty, fear that they will figure me out, fear that they will hurt me first...I am exposing this, but seem to do it on a continual basis. I use humor to keep it light as much as possible. I am a dedicated and passionate friend, but keep people at a distance alot. Anyone else with this struggle? My therapist feels it is related to the ocd and my need for perfection whether in my appearance, my thoughts, my job, or my relationships. What do you think?
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