Okay ... now that my fiance and I are getting married in 3 weeks, we have been trying to find wedding bands. I have been having SO much trouble finding on to go with my engagement ring, and when I do find one, it is WAY too much money. My fiance has actually decided to get a cheap silver band for now to save some money. If that is okay with him, then it's okay with me! Now my issue here is ... I was able to find what I thought would be the perfect wedding band from an ebay store ... and it came in today and I love it, but it doesn't fit with my engagement ring (surprise, surprise!) because the band is very thin (which I like because it's more comfortable than having thick sides) and my engagement ring is very thick. My fiance has given me the option of getting a different ring altogether and selling this one. He says he doesn't care. He said it's not about the ring. He only got that ring because it's like what I described I wanted. He said it's about me and he just wants me to be happy. I cried because I felt so bad that I would want a different ring because this is the one he gave me. But ... at the same time, I want to be happy with a simple, comfortable ring and wedding band that fit well together ... because this is making me anxious and frustrated already! He said again and again that he doesn't care as long as I'm happy ... should I just do it? Am I worrying too much? I feel bad :-(
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