The last couple of days have been bad. I have my 20 year old living with me. She had got into some trouble with the law. And got pregnant by a guy that is now in prison. She has been here for four months. When she moved in we told her two months. It is hard to have someone living here with my OCD. Her room is a mess. So me and my husband have talked to her about it. She did not listen so my husband keeps the door to her room closed so I do not see it. But I still know the mess is there and it drives me crazy. She is working and making good money. I talked to my landlard and he has a place for her coming open the first of febuary. I went to put dishes up the other day and she had the cabinets a mess. She goes in the kitchen and cooks and leaves the mess because she knows I can not have it a mess and I will clean it. It is driving me crazy. Is this my problem? Should I try to be more understanding that everyone is not like me? But it seems like she should try to do it my way because it is my house.
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