Since my fiance and I have started dating, I have put on 35 pounds and he has put on weight as well. He wasnt thin to begin with either. Now, he has started to make changes and buy healthy food and get rid of the soda and has asked me to join him so that we can support each other. What I resent about that is, when we first started dating, I told him that I was trying to lose weight and he didnt support me. I would buy lower fat milk(he drank whole milk!) and would not use butter substitute and drank soda constantly. When I told him my feelings about his previous responses, he said he wasnt ready to change then. Now, I feel like cheating constantly, almost like a little kid sneaking things. I feel little mad and I know I need to get over it. Bottom line is now we can make the necessary changes to get healthy, I dont know how to rewire my brain and attitude.
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