Hi, I am new here.. I have low self esteem due to weight and how I carry the weight. People have a habit of asking me, "oh when are you due?" or "is it a boy or girl?" And I have never even been pregnant. I have had it happen several times. In highschool it even happened. I used to be a size 3-4 in the 11th grad, and then I got the birthcontrol shot. I gained 60 lbs in 3 months. it was horrible. people kept spreading rumors that i was pregnant. And even now at 22 years old, people still ask those things. It hurts so much. every time it happens I get so upset when I leave the situation. my husband tries to tell me I don't look pregnant, but if I didn't then why would people say things like that? I am starting to try to diet and lose weight. I am going to need some motivation and support. I have tried before, but after 3 months I only lost 2 lbs.. and I think that was just water weight... Any support and friend request are welcome. :) Please share your stories and advice with me. :) Thanks.
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