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I know this is depressing stuff, and OK, I am in the middle of what has been a very deep dive into depression. But I think there are things to learn from these times as well as the good.
I am currently of the opinion that overeating is legal, long term suicide. For me, over eating and weight gain has come about by my giving up, as if life has been one long mental battle and struggle. And I'm tired, so I have given up and eat whatever, knowing that it is killing me. I have thrown in the towel against this thing that has haunted me most of my life.
While this might seem very negative and as I said depressing, it is also an acknowledgement of my mental and physical state. But what is it that I have been battling against all these years? What has beaten me? I am now trapped in a life that I cannot escape without hurting the people that mean most to me.
Anyway, I'd like your opinion, is over eating suicide?
I am currently of the opinion that overeating is legal, long term suicide. For me, over eating and weight gain has come about by my giving up, as if life has been one long mental battle and struggle. And I'm tired, so I have given up and eat whatever, knowing that it is killing me. I have thrown in the towel against this thing that has haunted me most of my life.
While this might seem very negative and as I said depressing, it is also an acknowledgement of my mental and physical state. But what is it that I have been battling against all these years? What has beaten me? I am now trapped in a life that I cannot escape without hurting the people that mean most to me.
Anyway, I'd like your opinion, is over eating suicide?
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OK, I'm going to risk throwing my two cents in here. I know full well some will agree while others will disagree, but here goes. Suicide? Definately not.. the very reason is simple, your here on a self help page and I've seen you many times reach out to help others. That doesnt sound like some one TRYING to kill themself. It sounds like someone that understands and wants to reach out to people in need. That said, if you really wanted to die, why pick something so slow and painful? Why not drink your self to death? I could mention some really fun ways, but I dont think thats appropriate. No my friend your depressed, disgusted, and lots more, but not really suicidal. Now, since we have chosen to live, why not live as best we can? Lots of people here say addiction. The best plan with the most success for addiction has to be the AA 12 step program. Why not start there? The steps are the same for any addiction. The thing is, do SOME THING. Nothing causes depression, and depession says who cares, go ahead and eat. It wont be easy, but it can be done. I would also talk to some one and see if you can pin point the real root of your depression. You mentioned where you live, job, home situation, and maybe there is more. You have to find whats really eating you before you can stop eating because of it. OK, thats my two cents. I may be full of it, but I dont think you want to die, and I certainly dont want you to. So we are here for you, anything we can do to help. And I am here... if you need a friend I never have too many, glad to count you as one. I'm available to talk any time.