
Obesity Support Group
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I am just wondering----How many of you keep your real pain to yourself? I am always there for everyone else, so ready to reach out and lift people up and out. But when I am down myself, I don't let anyone know. I stay hidden and isolate. I don't know why, maybe pride, or embarrassment, because I should have everything figured out but I don't sometimes. For others I can cleary see their needs, I am trained to recognized them, but for me I don't.
See just to write this I feel as if I shouldn't. Why do I feel this way? Why do I isolate? Why do I feel embarrassed if anyone show ME caring?
Why do I feel I have to always be the strong one and never let people know I need others too?
See just to write this I feel as if I shouldn't. Why do I feel this way? Why do I isolate? Why do I feel embarrassed if anyone show ME caring?
Why do I feel I have to always be the strong one and never let people know I need others too?
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