I think a few of my "friends" are trying to ditch me since I began losing weight and changing my lifestyle. We were supposed to go out today and I just received an email giving me some very cold and lame excuses as to why they (she was apparently speaking for all of them) cant go skiing and tubing today as planned (we made these plans 2 weeks ago). A couple of weeks ago we all went out to eat. afterward they wanted to stop at tim hortons, they each ordered iced capps and triple chocolate cakes. I refused to order anything, but with every bite they made lip smacking sounds, talked about how delicious and rich the cake was. They went on with every bite, "are you sure you dont want just one bite" "you dont knwo what youre missing"...am I looking at this wrong or are they trying to sabatoge me? anyone else experience anything similar? I dont kwno how to handle this. Should I say something to them? ignore it?
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