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y are people soo mean?today this kidd was calling me fat and shit andi cursed him out and i got in trouble....y afre kids soo mean...im already dead on the inside y cant i be dead on the outside.
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Show them who's the better person. Show them who has more class and good breeding. Don't stoop to their level by calling names. Stick up for yourself with a smile of sympathy for the fools that they are.
Find one of those adults in your school - and then tell them about it - and about the person who disciplined you.
The one who got you in trouble - should be asked:
have YOU ever been picked on? What would you do? What would you do if i was your kid, your sister...would i be in trouble for trying to stop someone from attacking me?
Any smart adult should know that it's not going to solve any problems to ignore bad behavior and condone it (the person who picked on you) - or to ask people to be quiet and take it (what you could have done to avoid getting in trouble)...
Sometimes adults are stupid. Sometimes they cant relate.
My sister use to always yell at my niece because she was always crying - because her brother was picking on her / bothering her. My sister would yell at the one picked on - and she said because she HEARD the person crying - but she didnt SEE the brother picking on her.
She should have dealt with the real problem.
She didnt - until the dentist and doctor told her that her daughter was going to loose her teeth from grinding them in her sleep - from stress. What was the stress? Her brother picking on her - and she couldn't cry about it or she'd get in trouble....
It's got to come out one way or another. Dont let anyone tell you to ignore it or be quiet - you just have to find a better / more effective way of dealing with it.
Obviously - cursing or using language that kids get in trouble for - is not going to help you much. It will get everyones attention - which is why people do it - but not in the right way.
Write a letter to the person who got you in trouble - and the kid who made fun of you - telling them how bad it makes you feel. How Bad.
Then - if you are up for it - pass it on to a NICE adult - to pass it along to the one who got you in trouble.
It's their responsibility to try to stop the behavior the other kid was doing. They are not doing their job.
Youre being picked on because of your age - not just because of your weight. If an adult was in the same situation, and reacted like you or worse...most likely no one would say anything to them.
You SHOULD stand up for yourself.
Just - keep it cool - dont go overboard.
You are right - they were wrong.
Dont give up because others are stupid.