I was rearended in aug 07 and from day one have had pain down the right side of my neck, shoulder and arm. I had all the usual tests done with no one finding anything. Almost all the doctors would just give me this look as if I was such a fraud. Just because I was in a wreck doesn't mean I have faked my pain. Believe me if I could work I would but the pain is terrible neverending. The problem with invisible nerve pain is that people look and you and can't see the usual broke arm or leg and they think there is nothing wrong. Only people who have this chronic pain understand the toll it takes on everyday life. The thing that I get tired of hearing from people is "oh you must be better your out today"....I just want to scream no I am not better I am just out! Its very easy to get depressed sitting at home day after day! Anyway just wanted to vent a little...anyone with similiar problems please join me in the venting session!
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