I just want to thank everyone who has been so helpful answering my questions about MS. My brother in law is very progressed and can not always communicate his needs very well. There is so much you have helped me to understand and there has been plenty of helpful advice. Some of you know that his wife took off a few months ago for a 2 week vacation and stayed gone 2 months. Well, she did it again. I got a letter in the mail that says she's gone for 3 weeks at least. She sent a list of his appoinments and meds. I am so angry... but whatever. We will take care of it. I am hoping that while she is gone we can get him into a safer living arrangement. I'm sure there will be more situations coming up that I will need advice on. I had been to other MS message boards and websites and found them to not be as inviting. It was kind of like.. you don't have MS so get the hell out. But you people have been very kind and helpful. Thanks Again.