i have to tee tee all night while laying down and all day when i'm up or sitting or.....
it's probably because your more relaxed when you lay down.
my family has been telling me that my hearing is getting bad lately

You'll lucky you can get up. Yes, I noticed the urge to pee but then when I go, nothing happens. I think it is a MS thing.

I have to go the the bathroom at least 3 times, right before I go to bed!!! Then about 2 to 6 times during the night. (that little reply in the "you know you have ms when" about the lady who said she didn't flush the toilet cause she knew she'd pee again in a minute was so funny cause I do that too!!!

Yes, i can be a MS thing. If you have ins. make an apptment with a good ear Dr. ENT. They can do tests that the problem can show up on. Ask for the med records about two weeks later. Also go to the urologist who will do at test to see if you are empting enough. They might give you detrol. Ask for a copy of those med. records too. These copies are what you need as proof for the neurologist to help with your diagnosis. So take a copy of them and give them to the neurologist.
When you see the ENT and the urogist and fill out the forms. Put down undiagnosed neurolodgical problems.
This all helps. Thats why you should keep everything.

Do not worry you are not going deaf. It could be just hard wax inside and it that case when they take it out everything will suddenly sound really loud LOL

I have had periodic urinary difficulty several times that last for days to weeks. I always feel like I have to go, but when I try, nothing comes out. Now, I usually wait a couple of hours to make sure there is really something there before going to the bathroom.
Lately, I have found a rather intresting solution to the problem that has helped me pee almost normally and empty my bladder. It's gonna sound wierd, but it works every time for me. I'm a male and usually go standing up. What I do is place one hand head-high against the wall in front of me or to the side and put some weight into it (like leaning against the wall) and this does something to that allows me to pee in an almost normal way. With a steady stream, no less.
I think it may have to do with the shifting of my center of gravity away from my pelvic area.
For any of you males with this problem, give it a try. It may just be psychological for me, but being able to empty the bladder in a normal fashion is a true blessing.