
Multiple Sclerosis (MS) Support Group
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10 Commandments (Suggestions) for care receivers
1. Always say please and thank you
2. Do what you can for yourself as long as you are able
3. Don't be true proud to ask for help when you need it.
4. Don't whine and complain.
5. Let your caregiver be sick too; sympathize, don't one up.
6. Become informed about your illness
7. Don't think the world revolves around you.
8. Make it your business to stay as healthy as you can.
9. Allow your caregiver guiltfree time away from you.
10. Let your caregiver know how much you love/ appreciate him or her.
Please feel free to add more.
1. Always say please and thank you
2. Do what you can for yourself as long as you are able
3. Don't be true proud to ask for help when you need it.
4. Don't whine and complain.
5. Let your caregiver be sick too; sympathize, don't one up.
6. Become informed about your illness
7. Don't think the world revolves around you.
8. Make it your business to stay as healthy as you can.
9. Allow your caregiver guiltfree time away from you.
10. Let your caregiver know how much you love/ appreciate him or her.
Please feel free to add more.
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