Multiple Personalities Support Group
Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...
Hi everyone.
We are very worried today and have a lot of conflict and fear, that we do not know what to do.
Our t wants to try to bring Lisa out today because she is causing so much turmoil and struggle in our life. Lisa is the worst of the alters.... she can cause so much trouble because she will do absolutely anything.
Tuesday, he tried to bring her out, but she refused, leaving me with the headache from you know where.....
We are very worried because Lisa, who is the strongest it seems of the alters, has been trying to take over and come out front for a long time.
She already comes out when the time is wrong, but we are worried that if he brings her out, she will stay out for ever.
Please help me, what should we do?????
june
We are very worried today and have a lot of conflict and fear, that we do not know what to do.
Our t wants to try to bring Lisa out today because she is causing so much turmoil and struggle in our life. Lisa is the worst of the alters.... she can cause so much trouble because she will do absolutely anything.
Tuesday, he tried to bring her out, but she refused, leaving me with the headache from you know where.....
We are very worried because Lisa, who is the strongest it seems of the alters, has been trying to take over and come out front for a long time.
She already comes out when the time is wrong, but we are worried that if he brings her out, she will stay out for ever.
Please help me, what should we do?????
june
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
My first response was nothing lasts forever. When you first started therapy and started crying you were afraid you would never stop, or at least that is how it was for me. I had to learn how to stop crying, and the cool part was that I always did stop crying. I moved on with my healing.
The way you stated your post gave me the impression you therapist knows you and your system. Is that correct? Only you know the answer to that.
IF you trust him, then I say yes, allow him to talk to this part. Nothing lasts forever. This part is causing some trouble for you. Pillow, who chose the name wolverine when he came, was causing me trouble when he came. It was time for him to get some healing. Thankfully, I had the skills I needed to see the real him, the scared, confused little boy he was and had always been. He was created for a purpose by bad people and needed to be healed too. I am so thankful he is coming along nicely. He is happy now. It is time for him to be happy and to use his great skills to help the process we have been in for so long.
So, there are some IF's here. Do you have the skills you need to have to take on this new hurting part. How far are you in your healing? How many years of therapy has your therapist been doing this. Is he wise? Can you trust him him to be there if you fall apart. How far is your therapist willing to go with you if this part gets destructive? Maybe this is what you should work on in therapy this week before allowing this part out.
You can of course continue to post here, or that part can post. We will always support you no matter where you are or who is posting. You are not alone. Silver
Purrs--Laura
My most damaged alter will not show herself either and this is very typical for them to stay in hiding and only come out to 'cause grief', they hold so much of the memories and are the ones most damaged by the abuse, these are the ones we must have the most compassion, respect, love, patience... etc for, they survived it all for us, we must learn to work together as a team and make sure her needs are met...........i have only started doing this...........it is so fkn hard, and so fkn challenging...........but i want peace and a system that works in unison.