hey there my friend...know the feeling...it is hard for them to understand..thought we wish they would...or even could...it is hard for them to see how there is any way possible that having any more then just us is doing any more good then harm...but in fact we know it is...and without them we would be in big trouble......wish there was a magic key to open his eyes and my hubbys eyes so they could see inside to know why the alters are in fact there...and what roles they play...but since there isnt just know that here you have friends that will loves you and accept you for who you are and all of you...take care and know you are loved...if you find you need another friend...please come find me...i am here for you...holly

Have you guys noticed that this DID stuff sometimes is so unbelievable that even those who suffer with it don't believe it? Anyway, the Bourne Identity, Sybil, the Manchurin (sp?) Candidate - these pics might help people understand esp. the military movies cause research and history shows that soldiers were experimented on and deliberately divided so that they could be controlled or enhanced. I bet some of you know a whole lot more than me on that subject. But when I start to wonder if DID is true or even possible I remember what the government did to people. It's real.

My husband doenst understand either nor does he want to. When we were going to therapy he would wait in the waiting room then complain later about how much money this was costing. He is in denial. He knows the alters, hes met most of them, he still askes "why did you do this this way yesterday?" me-"I didnt do it yesterday" him-"Yes you did I saw you" So we all just accept that. It works ok most of the time but there are still some catches. I dont know how to make him understand but just know that we are with you on this and we do understand, even if he doesnt.

I am writing as one who looks from the outside in. I am not a multiple but my very best friend basteph1977 is. It is very very hard for most of us on the outside to understand and accept that this is real. I do believe becuase I can see the changes. He doesn't want to accept this becuase it is eaiser for his brain to just not understand. Give him time and he might come around. Some people just take longer. Some will never believe or understand. Don't give up on him! I read everything that I could find on the subject and it did help, maybe that is what he needs to do. I hope that he will be about to accept you for who you are, all of you, and be able to support you!!

Education, education, education.

thank you all for your support and input it means so much to me.