We are confused. We know that we "feel" dissociated when littles are here (we are not, clearly speaking DID.. but DD NOS with clear identities and no amnesia). We know the DDNOS thing makes things confusing. But we know that "grounded" is supposed to mean NOT dissociated. But aren't we ALWAYS dissociated? When big me isn't connected to littles big is dissociated from littles. When we are connected to littles and they are here and we feel them with us and we talk little we feel funny and not quite "present" but we are more aware of some things than when we are big... Big we ignore other things and don't notice how things affect us until later... we forget things and lose track of things... thats pretty dissociated isn't it? Anybody else confused by this?
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