ON AUGUST 30, 2006 I CAME TO REALIZE THAT ALL THE THINGS WE ARE TOLD WERE FOR OUR OWN GOOD. NOW YOU MAY THINK "MOM IS SO OLD FASHION" BUT WHEN YOU GET OLDER YOU REALIZE THAT YOU START TO THINK LIKE HER AND TELL YOURSELF "I AM NOTHING LIKE HER". YOU FIND OUT YOU ARE THE SAME IN WAYS YOU CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE. I FIND MYSELF THINKING LIKE HER. MY DAD WOULD SAY "YOU ARE JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER" BUT HE WOULD SAY IT IN A NEGITIVE WAY AND I JUST SAY "THANK YOU FOR THE COMPLIMENT." NOW I HAVE A FAMILY AND I WOULD THINK "WHAT WOULD MOM DO FOR....." AND YOU KNOW SHE IS NOT JUST IN THE GROUND, SHE LIVES INSIDE MY HEART! IT IS WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE THEY STAY WITH YOU FOR AS LONG AS YOU LIVE. NOW I AM STILL GREIVING AND IT HURTS. WHO OF US HAS SAID FROM ONE TIME OR ANOTHER IN WHICH I HAVE "WHY DID YOU LEAVE ME MOM? WHY DID YOU DO THAT? HOW WILL I KNOW I AM DOING THE RIGHT THINGS WITH MY HUSBAND AND KIDS?" FOR SOME REASON YOUR MOM IS RIGHT THERE WITH YOU. I LOVE YOU MOM! GOD BLESS YOU!
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