Ok, I have a bad problem, it bothers me, and I do not know how to get over it! It has been 2 yrs since my mother passed away. I have a 18 month old daughter, she is the light of my life. Unfortunately, my mother did not live long enough to see my daughter and of course this breaks my heart. My issue is with my husbands mother. I am harboring bad feelings for her and I really think it is just because I am resentful she is here and MY mother is not. I am not really close to her anyway, but she is not a bad person, we get along ok. I know my daughter NEEDS to know her only grandma, but it almost makes me angry when she comes to visits, she is one of these MIL that wants to interject her opinion alot on how to raise my child and well honestly, her ways are a lot different than my moms were and I follow my moms ways. I am almost ashamed to write this, I know it is not fair of me, but I can not seem to be able to let these feelings go. Has anyone else had this problem??
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