...deal with people whose answer to your sorrow is that you have to "deal with it" because if everyone felt like you did, the world would not go on. I'm not interested in the future of humanity now; I'm just broken hearted. What do you tell people close to you who are trying to "reason" with you? I seem to be doubly cursed with people close to me who want to make this as logical and anticeptic as possible and people who I'd liketo avoid "letting in" who treat me with pity and almost like they can't bear to think to hard about my life or they'll combust or something. I refuse to be pitiedby many, but I wouldn't mind some emoathy from a few.... Am I making sense? Any good advice? You guys have a lot of wisdom....
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