I just figured out why I'm so unsettled over my mom's death. I'm angry! Pissed off that her doctors killed her and I want justice. Mom had an operation for a bowl obstruction and was sent home 30 hrs later. Four days after the operation, she started vomitting at home. My dad took her to the Er, they did some Xrays and sent her home. Still vomitting, my dad takes her back to ER 24 hours later. They admit her. She laid there in the hospital for 3 days, vomitting. What was wrong with my mom that they couldn't find out, taking X rays etc. It wasn't until it was too late. My mom got an pneumonia on her 3rd day there and no one knew she had it. The doctor ignored 3 calls made to him by the nurse and and my mom goes into cardiac arrest. They stabalize her and put her into intensive care but it was too late. They put her on life support. She was unconscious and we could not say goodbye. She died 24 hours later her death certificate for cause of death read septic shock and pneaumonia. What took them so long to see what was wrong with her. If she had all the symptoms she was having 1 week after a surgery, they should have know she had an infection and therefore her life could have be saved. I am so angry at the doctors and I want them to pay for what they did to my mother. She would still be alive today!!! This knowledge hurts me alot and that is why I don't have peace over her death.
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