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why do I keep setting myself up for heartbreak??

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My periods have never been normal I can go months without getting it at all, and ever since I lost my baby its like Ive lost my marbles..
During the month if I feel "off" or something the first thing I do is run out to buy a pregnancy test!! I know Im not preganant but I'll hope and pray pump myself up that maybe I am and then fall apart with its negitive.. Why do I do this to myself??
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You have no idea how normal this is. After my miscarraige and the methotrexate I had to wait 5 weeks before my cycle returned. During that time I thought I had morning sickness and my breast were growing. It has been said some women wait up to 10 weeks for a period. And I think, just like our bodies, our emotions or hormones have a mind of thier own. Think about it: Your whole adult life you have believed if you don't have a period your pregnant. (In your case even more) That's what the pill does...makes your body thinks it's pregnant. Also we want babies! We want to be pregnant! Until it happens? I got a book. It's in my journal. It doesn't have to be that one. I sat on the floor at B&N and read the back of a few before I decided.
Hang in there sister.
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