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When does the hurting end.

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I just feel so bad. This is my first miscarriage after my IVF procedure. Everything went so well. My beta numbers rose. Thursday, I saw the doctor and he was real pleased with my progress then on Saturday I wound up in the ER with intense pain and bleeding. I'm trying to think positively but I'm having a hard time with it. I just so wanted a baby. Now I don't know if that will ever happen.
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I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my baby on October 17, and I feel the same way as you do. Will it ever happen for me? I'm not sure if you're religious, but I know my comfort comes when I think that God was trying to protect me from a worse pain... If the baby hung on longer, there would have been complications. It was a problem in implantation that caused my little one to let go. It would have been disastrous if the Baby Bear would have hung on, you know? I feel that those of us who have to experience such pain are those who are most appreciative, and feel most blessed when you finally do get to hold a healthy baby in your arms. I feel that it will happen for you; keep hope, and perhaps soon we will be on a different board discussing the stress of parenting!
Lots of love and support,
Mahadra
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Thank you Mahadra. My doctor says that more than likely my miscarriage was do to a chromosomal abnormality. We will try another round of IVF after the new year. I do know that things happen for a reason. Maybe this was just not my time. I did get farther then I have ever been. So who knows maybe next time will be my time.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my little one on oct 20. I feel the same way, will this pain go away. I just want to be able to go to the store see a pregnant lady and not burst into tears. Just like Mahadra said "I feel that those of us who have to experience such pain are those who are most appreciative, and feel most blessed when you finally do get to hold a healthy baby in your arms. I feel that it will happen for you; keep hope, and perhaps soon we will be on a different board discussing the stress of parenting!'

Just be positive and if you have a great support system around you it does make things easier
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