i am experiencing a miscarriage now. i had some very slight bleeding 5 days ago which i know everyone says is "normal" in early pregnancy but it worried me as i had not had any bleeding when i was pregnant with my son. i spoke with my doctor who told me to go to hospital if i was worried, i spoke with the hospital who told me to go to my doctors......useless! so i took it upon myself for my own peace of mind to go to a&e to to get checked, make sure the pregnancy hadnt made me ill!!! i never really thought i would have lost the baby! i thought there might be a problem with the baby, i was only 7 weeks gone. They booked me in for a scan whwere i was told there was no longer a pregnancy, i was in shock but didnt want to believe it so i went to see the nurse who performed a pregnancy test....something to do with checking my hormone levels or something it didnt really sink in too well. she told me there was a slight positive result but she told me she would perform another test in a weeks time which she said would be negative. she gave me a buisness card told me to call her if any probs and that was it. i was too confused to think of any questions to ask, i had just been told my baby had died i couldnt really think. i wasnt even bleeding at this time, it didnt feel real. i had only had some browny spotting type bleeding, she never told me what to expect. so anyway i know im waffling on a bit bt i just need to get it all out i think, anyway today i wake up with period pain cramps and a heavy period type bleeding and im panicking thinking is this right, is this normal? why am ii bleeding 4 days after being told, why didnt i bleed straight away. nothing made sense to me. i tried calling doctors, hospitals no one has any help or advice and thats when you can actually get hold of someone. ive been told by a doctor to let nature take its course which is easy for him to say seeing as hes not the one going to the toilet passing clots which you know is your baby! is it normal to pass greyish clots, like marbled effect. it sounds so gross when i say it i just dont want to feel like the only one because everytime i go to the toilet i will stare at the tissue trying to see if its my baby. i find it horrific. i just hope and pray that things will feel better, that the bleeding will stop soon and i can get on with my life and not having a constant 24/7 reminder of whats happening. and once thats happened i can then plan to get pregnant again. the way i feel now i want to be pregnant in a couple of months but i know i need to wait at least a cycle before trying.
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