I feel so alone i lost twins in 07 but was only 8 weeks i am now 11days off 20weeks and feel shit. On wednesday the 11th feb we burie our boys and im so scared i dont no what to do we wanted to get htem cremated but they said we will get nothin back so we chose to get them buried its the hardest thing i have ever done in my life.We chose the casket and what we are going to do we just wanted my hubby and myself there but the family wanted to come aswell they are talking about balloons and all sorts of other shit and i dont wont any of it am i being rude if they want to come ok but this is up to me and my hubby or do i let them have there say please help me i feel like imgoing nuts.... Very Sad MUM
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