Hello, I am new to this but I know I need support so I am going to give it a try. After only trying for a couple of months, my husband and I found out we were pregnant! Sadly, however, I learned that the babys heart was not beating at 9 1/2 weeks (the baby only looked 6 1/2 weeks). My Dr. said the heart looked like it was beating and then, when I went for another ultrasound, I learned the bad news. I needed to have a DNC done on a Thursday and the recovery was hard (lots of pain). I went back to the dr. a couple of days later, and they found there was still products of conception left in me!! I was so upset, and eventually , they convinced me that I needed another DNC one week later. It is the day after my surgery, and I feel so mislead, upset and frusterated. I am dealing with such a loss, and now I am wondering what happened? Is this normal? Have any of you dealt with this before? I just need a helping hand....
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