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First, please do not think I am some kind of crazy horn ball for asking this, but...
Did you all wait until the standard 2 weeks before you and your DH had sex again after the m/c? I ask because I am not quite 2 weeks, only a week and a half, but we have not had sex in over 4 weeks because when I found out we were pg we were told to hold off until after the u/s. The u/s obviously did not go well so it has been quite a while.
Right now, I need to be close to my hubby in that way to feel "NORMAL" again....I know that sounds weird, but that is how I feel. I need to be able to feel normal after all this.
Thanks!
Did you all wait until the standard 2 weeks before you and your DH had sex again after the m/c? I ask because I am not quite 2 weeks, only a week and a half, but we have not had sex in over 4 weeks because when I found out we were pg we were told to hold off until after the u/s. The u/s obviously did not go well so it has been quite a while.
Right now, I need to be close to my hubby in that way to feel "NORMAL" again....I know that sounds weird, but that is how I feel. I need to be able to feel normal after all this.
Thanks!
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The only thing I would say is that moving too fast isn't going to make anything easier and you have to make sure you're healed physically so you don't do any permanent damage.
But you can always be intimate in other ways. It's not always about intercourse.
Thank you for your responses. I just like to get an idea of whether I am crazy for feeling that way or not! :)
Thank you for your responses. I just like to get an idea of whether I am crazy for feeling that way or not! :)
Maggie
Because I had a D&C the first time, I did wait due to risk of infection. I expect I'll wait this time around too (mostly because sex is the last thing on my mind as I wait to miscarry a blighted ovum).
I was told about 3 weeks...
I waited two...
Same thing happened as you but better safe than sorry ...