
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I just recently had a misscarriage a week ago. i was 4 weeks along. everthing happen natural.i didn't have to have a d&c. I stopped bleeding 4 days afterwards. and today we had sex for the first time without protection. i was wondering if it is to soon to start trying again? i've heard of women getting pregnant 2 weeks after they miscarriage. and i really want to get pregnant again.

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I would ask your doctor when it is safe for you to begin trying again. I was told I had to wait 3 months so that my uterus and uterus lining would fully heal. I was told if you try to soon without your body fully healing you have a chance that you could miscarry again. Some doctors say wait until after your first period and than begin trying again, because your loss was so early in your pregnancy it may be safe for you to begin trying asap. But just to be safe and careful I would just give your doctor a call, they should be able to tell you over the phone if it is ok or if you need to wait. I wish you luck on conceiving another child and I prayer for your ability to carry full term and bring a child into this world. I pray for all of the women who have experienced the loss of a child, I hope and truly wish we all will be able to bring children into this world and having the chance to raise them. I'm sorry to hear of your loss and I hope your doctor gives you the ok so you can begin trying again. xx Krystle

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Hi sorry to hear of your heartache I was advised to wait for one menstral cycle and then it would be ok to try again as long as it was emotionally ok with both of us so I hope this helps and thinking of you at this horrid time...x

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With a D&C you are supposed to wait 3 months for your body to heal, but if you were able to miscarry naturally my doc says there is no problems trying as soon as you can. The only advise I have for you is to not rush into pregnancy again unless you are sure you feel ready. Many women rush rush rush to conceive again in hopes that they will feel better about their loss. Grieve for the baby you lost and once you are certain that is behind you, emotionally, you will be prepared to try again.

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I had my miscarriage (natural, not D&C) on 10/03/07 and my doctor advised me to wait 2 normal cycles before "trying again", but it was because of the emotional toll on your body vs. health reasons. With me, my ultrasounds were clear (everything looked good and my uterus didn't thin lining didn't thin out too much) but because it was my 2nd, they also did some chromosonal testing (the results still are not back yet). At first, we were going to wait 2 cycles and until the test results come back, but I am like you, I really want to be pregnant again.

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My first was natural and the doctor said to wait three months. I didn't because I already knew it was for emotional reasons. This time I had a D&C and he said to try right away and chart my cycles. He knew I could handle it so there was no need to give me the three months. However, for myself I am waiting until after my first AF. I wanted my body to get back to normal, build my uterine lining, and to be able to date my pregnancy easier if I got pregnant.

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I miscarried a couple of months ago and like you I didn't have a D&C, we are trying again. my doctor told me to wait a couple of weeks to have sex then use protection until after my first period. She told me If I got pregnant beforehand its ok, just difficult to date. I think as long as there is no complications you should be fine But I have to agree with what others wrote about checking with your doctor and making sure you have delt with your greif properly. I wish you all the luck in the world. xx

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I was told to wait one cycle but like you I didn't wait to start trying again. Just keep track of when you had sex so it makes it easier to dat eyour pregnancy. When I got pregnant b4 the mc my last period was in MAy 07 and i didn't conceive until the end of June. If I didn't keep track it really would have confused my doctor as to how far along I was.
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