Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
I started bleeding on Thursday late at night. It wasn't heavy and no tissue whatsoever but the pain is just like labor very intense. I was afraid of tubal pregnancy and went to ER on Saturday evening. They took blood and urine and did a sonogram as well as a vag exam. Doc said it was a threatened miscarriage and could go either way.
I have had 4 healthy deliveries and know from experience that this is NOT normal. We are not talking about some little cramps here. It hurts so bad and after four days of this I just don't know what to do. I am still bleeding and the cramping and pressure on my back has left me unable to do anything. With four kids this is a real problem as they do not stop for pain!
At this point honestly I know I am misscarrying and I just want something for the pain. Has anyone else experienced this. Does anyone have any advice????????
Please help this is sooo painful.
I have had 4 healthy deliveries and know from experience that this is NOT normal. We are not talking about some little cramps here. It hurts so bad and after four days of this I just don't know what to do. I am still bleeding and the cramping and pressure on my back has left me unable to do anything. With four kids this is a real problem as they do not stop for pain!
At this point honestly I know I am misscarrying and I just want something for the pain. Has anyone else experienced this. Does anyone have any advice????????
Please help this is sooo painful.
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I had a natural miscarriage at 8.5 weeks.
the pain was immense, though as I have never been through full term birth I cannot compare.
The Dr told me that the pains were my cervex dialating to allow the tissue to pass. There were also severe cramps.
For me the pains lasted 3days and then for the following week would come and go at a lesser degree.
It is very differnt for everyone thought so do not take my experience as the level standard.
Please, please post as many questions as you have no matter what nature they are,
as the women here are amazing and here to support one another through these difficult times.
With love Jo.
My suggestion would be for you to go to your doctor and get checked out. Maybe he/she can set you up to come in weekly for a while so you can get frequent checks.
My miscarriage was totally different...so I don't have any advice for the pain. I didn't have any pain or severe cramping...just spotting on and off for several weeks. One day I just knew that the baby had died...I was right. I had a D&C the same day.
Good luck.
I have had both a "natural" miscarriage (like yours)in September and a fetal death followed by a D&C a couple of weeks ago. I would say, get to your doctor ASAP. I found the D&C process to be difficult, but worth not having to go through what you are describing. There are also meds they can give you, I think, to help with this. Or at least to help with the pain. With 4 little ones, being laid up is just not an option for you.
Take care, you'll be in my prayers.