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thinking of trying again for a baby

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i want to try again for a baby, two years ago i misscaried in the end of the second month.

finding out i was pergant was the best superise i ever had, and lossing the bay was the hardest thing in my life,

i want to try again, but i am fearfulm that i won't be able to enjoy begaing pergant because, i will be to worried about all the what if's that come after a misscarrage? and i know i will only be at peace once i hoold and hear my baby cry for the first ime?

my questions is? is this normal, and how can i began to work though this so i can move on and strat a family.
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Totally normal. I was terrified for the year between our first miscarriage and the second pregnancy. Then I got pregnant a second time and I just tried to stay calm and think positive thoughts. I still lost my second pregnancy, but I at least wasn't a total basketcase throughout the second pregnancy.
I know that it will be even more difficult to push the fear away when we try again, but I know that with my husband's support I will be able to get through it. You just need to feel free to talk about your fears whether that be with your husband or with a friend or with us so it doesn't overwhelm you. You won't need that stree.
Good luck and enjoy it!
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I think it's totally normal. We want to start trying again and I'm scared if I do get pregnant that I won't be able to enjoy the pregnancy. But, I've decided that if I do get a BFP this month that I'm going to just take it one day at a time.
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hiya, i had a stillborn baby in april 2006, it took me 8 months then i was pregnant again, i too was feeling like you, full of what ifs, i also lost that baby too, now its been 8 months again and we have started trying but as much as i want to fall pregnant i know i will be up to 90 worrying every day, and no matter what people say about staying positive i just dont think its as easy as that, wish you all the luck in the world x
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I am the same way. We actually are going to start trying next month, and I just had my D & C on Oct 9th, but I feel I am ready. You must remember that miscarriage is a very common thing and most women will experience it with or without knowing. So, rest easy, think positive, and if you think you are ready, then go for it! If you have had just one miscarriage, the likelyhood that you would miscarry again is very small.
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