
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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When does the pain ever go away from having a miscarriage? Not that I could ever forget my baby, but there are days I feel like staying in bed all day. I have good days and then others I'm sad and depressed:( Our baby has been gone for 2 weeks tomorrow and it still hurts and I feel alone. I feel like others are thinking I should be moved on, but how do you do that when you want that little life in you so bad. Some days I wish that this was all a bad dream, but I know it's reality. You just want to escape from all the pain. Go on vacation or something?? Pray for me and please give me some insight on how long this pain tears at your heart. I want to have another baby, but I'm so scared. And the fear is making me think twice about having another child again.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It's going on 8 months since my m/c and I feel like I am just starting to get back on my feet now. These things take time and 2 weeks is not nearly long enough. I found that once my due date passed things got easier. I don't believe that anyone "gets over it" you just learn to handle it a bit better. You will get to that point. We're all here for you and you can message me if you ever want to talk!
I'll offer myself as an example. I lost two babies last year (August and December) to early miscarriage and went through a serious depression for about two months after the second loss. With the support of this site, my grief therapist and my family and friends, I have fought my way back to my life. I took several months off of ttc after the second loss too. I worked hard to remember/find what was/is good in my life. Being someone who has lost babies is now part of who I am, but I am also someone who can appreciate the life I have now. It takes lots of time and hard work, but it can be done. The pain is real but so is the hope.
Hang in there. I will be thinking of you!