i am so sorry..i wish there was something i could do to take your pain away...the only thing i can say it that it will be ok...you are a strong women and brave at that...you are in my prayers

Thanks so much! I need all the prayers I can get.

soooo sorry! I know that has to have been tough! If you need anything I'm here for ya!

Thanks Julie!

I really feel for you right now. look at it on the bright side though, she will eventually end up alone and looking after a child by herself because if your husband couldn't handle commitment with you when it got tough, how do you think he will handle it when he realises the commitment required for a child!!
I know its hard now but keep your head up because you deserve so much better.

I agree Misty. Thanks hun!

Your story is so sad. I am so sorry to hear what you have been through. You are young and foxy, and will no doubt find happiness in the future with a lovely man. Yet the other woman is stuck with your horrible ex! I wish you happiness. Good luck with picking up the pieces and look forward to the day when you have your own family xx

Thanks! You're right. She can have my left-overs. Without me, he wouldn't be where he is today, and when she falls asleep with him each night she can say her prayers and thank god that I was in his life and helped him succeed for the last NINE years.

That's brutal! I'm so sorry your are going through this. I wish I had more to offer as far as advice goes, but I do offer my support and positive thoughts. They say living well is the best revenge. I'd like to think your revenge is just around the corner. Take care!

I just look at my ex's girlfriend and can't help but laugh. She always looks really freaked out when she sees me lol :D (My ex & I have a nearly three year old together so unfortunately I still have to see him & his girlfriend who he cheated on me with.)

I'm over all the anger and hurt now and I'm thankful that she's ended up with him because its enabled me to move forward with my life in ways he never would have allowed me to. I've met an amazing man who treats me with the love & respect I deserve, I'm living on my own and feel so independent, I've started studying towards a degree in social anthropology. I still have difficult days, especially trying to cope with the loss of my second child MJ, but overall my life is so much better than when he was dictating it.

I know splitting up is hard but it does get easier and you will find inner strength you never realised you had. Best of luck, hope this has helped.

Love and blessings.

Oye! I'm so sorry that you have to have these kind of feelings. I can completely understand where your coming from. I'm praying for you!

If you were meant to have children with this man, it would have happened. Clearly God was watching out for you, because he knew you wouldn't be happy with someone who would eventually cheat on you. Still, it hurts to see people happy when their very happiness is what hurts you. It might be time to cut ties with your ex-husband, if for no other reason that you'll be happier not feeling the resentment you get from seeing their undeserved joy.