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test results...good or bad?

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i had 2 missed miscarriages within 6 months, and 2 weeks ago we went to the doctor and asked if they would do some tests to see if tyhey could find a reason why. well we foned them up yesterday and the tests were all clear.

i dont knwo whether this is good or bad?

good...cos it means there is nothing wrong with me, and theres every chance that my next baby will survive.

but bad...because we dont have any answers as to why my babies died. i was looking forwards to having and answer and been treated for it...you cant treat bad luck!!!
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Sweetie i understand what you are saying i think we all would love answers. But it is fantastic that they found nothing wrong. Any of us who have gone though the loss of a angel baby we always be very nervous at trying again.
Try to relax and let time take its course. Good Luck XXXX
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I know exactly what you mean. I am in the midst of my second loss in 6 months too. The first was a missed miscarriage like you and this one is a blighted ovum (no embryo formed). Though I haven't gone through testing, I also have no indication that there is any specific problem. Also I have a healthy two-year old, a strong indication that I can produce a child. It is so difficult to not know why. I'm trying to take the lack of cause as a positive. Hang in there. I'll be thinking of you.
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I know what you mean. I think answers would also give us closure. We could do something to prevent it next time.
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