
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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I know that we have all lost babies at different stages and we have all been through different situations. Some of us had a hard time concieving from the get go, others it came entirely too easily and left just as quickly. I am curious for those of us that got pregnant very easily or by accident and miscarried.
Is anybody trying to concieve again and finding it strangly hard? It has been 5 months since my miscarriage and nothing! I got pregnant by accident one night without protection, after 5 months without protection I would expect something! Is anybody else going through this or have any ideas as to why this is happening.
I understand ovulation and what happens, I understand there are times to be having sex, I have been having sex during ovulation, before and after also!
Just looking for some thoughts!
Is anybody trying to concieve again and finding it strangly hard? It has been 5 months since my miscarriage and nothing! I got pregnant by accident one night without protection, after 5 months without protection I would expect something! Is anybody else going through this or have any ideas as to why this is happening.
I understand ovulation and what happens, I understand there are times to be having sex, I have been having sex during ovulation, before and after also!
Just looking for some thoughts!
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Drives you crazy, though - the disappointment each month. And it's so easy for some people.
If you want to get really proactive about it, www.fertilityfriend.com is a great site. The ladies there are bona fide EXPERTS on everything you can possibly do to make it happen.
With my first pregnancy, I wasn't on prenatals, just went off the pill and was pregnant the same month. My son is now 2.
When we started trying for another baby, I went on vitamins and off pill; 3 months later I was pregnant. I lost that baby to a missed miscarriage in the first trimester.
Now we've been trying another 3 months since the D&C. It is beyond difficult and frustrating. Now that I'm creeping into my mid-30's, I don't have the luxury of taking it easy and wait & see. I think we all just handle it as best we can.
With the help of my psychologist (a fertility specialist), I've been able to put trying into perspective a little more. I control what I can and do my best to let the rest go. Recently I started making a point to get involved in non-baby-related things and to participate fully in my life as it is now, not just wait to be pregnant (like I had been the past eight months).
Anyway, you're not alone. Do what you have to do to get through it. Take care and good luck!