I found out I was pregnant in May and when we went to the first appointment in July there was no heartbeat. I had a D&C, the baby was only six weeks and a few days. I thought I was fine, but the last week has been really bad. We were so excited, the nursery is painted, we got a new car...very stupid considering how early I was. We also told almost all of our family. I thought I was over this, but I just can't shake the blues. I don't know if it's hormones or grief. I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it because I don't want to be the girl who can't get over it. Just typing this helps. Any suggestions for moving on? We plan on trying again soon, but I still haven't gotten my period and even though my doctor says it's okay to start trying once I do, it still feels early. I'm not sure I can handle another miscarriage right now. Thanks for listening.
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