
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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Does any one else want to just have a stillbirth community? I feel like it's hard for me to find other friends that have had stillbirths because there are so many that have had M/C. I just feel like they need to be 2 different communities. I hope this doesn't offened anyone that is not what this post is for at all. Let me know how you all feel thank you.
~Tamberly
~Tamberly
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That is a good point though, made by the other ladies. Where do you draw the line? I remember feeling my son move at 16 weeks. I think that we are all grieving here. And all for the same thing. Whether God took our babies at 8 weeks or 40 weeks, we all were preparing for a future with our child that never got to be.