I felt and sometimes feel exacly the same. I lost my first baby 3 weeks ago. Try and talk to your husband as he will be greiving too, eventhough he will not feel the same he will still need to know how your feeling. I found that my husband just wanted to protect me and look after my, they just have to be able to do this in there own way, it is there way of dealing with things. This might sound crazy but I felt loads better when we started having sex again, maybe it was the rush of good hormones or the fact of just using my bits for what they are ment to do, I dont know but it seemed to really healp me. Take care, everyone says this but time does help with he healing

It's been two weeks for me and for the first week I did NON stop crying. Then I seemed like I was doing okay for the most part. I'm not sure what happend but I've done nothing but cry starting last night and even today. I think I've gotten so bad that my family and friends are just avoiding me at all costs. I'm so sorry you are going through this. But I find myself just in "la la land" here lately.

I had a m/c in april. it was my 1st pregnancy, too. i felt that way when i got the "it's definate" news at the dr's office. then i saw my hubby in the dr's office a few minutes later and i just started crying uncontrolably for the rest of the day. i still get those numb feelings sometimes.

I wanted to first say that I am so ver sorry! I also felt the way you did when we got the news at 18 weeks that our baby was not going to make. I just remember going completely numb, it is part of the greiving process. Please know that you and your husband will get through this tough time and just advise him that there are a lot of supportive people on this site it helps a lot! I am here for you if you ever need to talk!

Thank you everyone, after being on this site for less than an hour, I realized I can cry and haven't stopped yet. I know all this support will help me through this rough patch. Thank you again.

I understand how you feel. There are some days when I can't cry at all. Other days, I can't stop crying. I just keep telling myself that time will help to heal some of pain. I'm so sorry for your loss. Know that we are all here for you.

Of course you should be crying. You lost your child. I lost my first baby in April. It's unimaginable pain. You will grieve. You need to grieve. THe pain never really goes away, but you learn to deal with it better. If you need to talk I'm here!