Ok my BF is really pissing me off. I don't understand him at all. I had a D & E on jan 27th. Next tuesday it will be 2 weeks since "everything" happened. My doctor said no sex or anything inside me for 2 weeks. Well, I don't douche or wear tampons but I do have sex. I haven't done anything sexual since the procedure, mainly beacause of me being so emotionally down and drained. I have bled very little and the little bleeding that I had has seemed to subside. I told my BF that I wanted to try slowly to have sex. I don't mean get right into it and hurt me but just a little bit to see how it felt. If it hurt then I would stop. He is not going for it. He is being so mean about this whole thing. He said that I should wait until the 2 weeks is up. I want to call my doc and see what she thinks but I don't know. I feel ok and now i really think that my hormones are getting back to normal beacause I'm always in the mood like I was before I got prego. After I got prego this last time my libido dropped big time. I can't take this sexual frustration. I mean I want the physical but most of it is emotional for me. Can anyone relate to this? I'm not trying to give out too much info but I need to know that I'm not alone on this and I def need some advice. I just want to be held again. He even goes as far to if I ask him for a kiss he tries to get out of it because he "knows where it's going to lead". OMG it's been forever. HELP!! thanks
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