For sure! I think we all get upset at little milesotes like those! My appointments, when I would have hit 17 weeks, when I would have been 30 weeks. Christmas(when I was due) all of these different times have upset me so much! It is so hard, but just keep your spirits up! The next few months are a total rollarcoaster!

I know it's no excuse but I think it's a man thing! I've had the same experience. It was a year on 24 October since our first loss and my husband forgot and I really went mad. Our second child that we lost (at 21 weeks) was due on 9 January 2008 and he said he might be going to a concert with his friend. You can imagine my reaction! The date is etched in my mind, there is no way I will forget it! I'm trying to be a bit understanding but at times it really pisses me off and I wonder if he feels the loss as much as I do. So the only way I can deal with it is to remind him of the dates and make sure he fusses over me. I'm sorry for your loss, take care x

Its ok to feel the way you do, when your ready to put it behing you for a while you will. Men are men. my boyfriend didn't even know it was our babies annerversary or our twins annerversary this week. Oh i had a service dedicated to the babies at the church the week i lost them. This helped and with my first miscariage i text all of my friends to light a candle for the baby on his annaversary. And i know you want this baby but you will get pregnant again and just remember that you only lost the baby recently so your probalby still grieving i was in shock for a while felt kind of spaced out. i was 11 weeks with my first miscariage and even though i have childen already after i lost the twins one was eptopic and one in the womb at around 6 weeks i thought i woud never get pregnant i thought god didn;t want me to have anymore kids abut guess what? i am now 20 weeks pregnant and every thing seems ok.

GOOD LUCK ALLOW YOURSELF TO GRIEVE AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU YOU SHOULDNT BE FEELIIILIKE THIS.

I asked my hubby if he remembered that my due date was coming up (November 12) and he said he hadn't thought about it. It sucked it happened and there was nothing he could do about it so he is put it behind him and doesn't dwell on it. He thinks I should do the same unfortunately it is different for us. Our babies memory and all the things we should have been doing at any given date and time will be forever etched in our memories. Hugs and sorry for your loss. Angelique

I think we all get upset. I was supposed to have a ultrasound to find out the sex today. I cried when I saw my pregnant coworker and couldn't stop crying. I just went home within the hour of getting to work.