Miscarriage Support Group

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it has only been 2 days since I lost my angel but I am finding it hard getting my mine to remember I am no longer pregnant. I was so use to waking up in the morning knowing I was pregnant and not eating or doing certain things because I was pregnant but I have to now constantly have to remind myself when I wake that I am not and that I can eat and drink certain things. My husband has helped me move all my pregancy magazines and books from round the house to try to help. I am not sure I am ever going to feel beter until I am pregnant again but I am petrified that the same will hapen again and I will be a nervous reck every thing I feel the slightest twinge and constantly checking the toilet tissue ! This is the worst time of my life and I don't understand why I am being put through this
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It's been a week since i lost my lil' angel baby. i find my self putting my hand on my tummy (like I would two weeks ago) and be happy for a sec. and then i remember that i am empty, and then my heart sinks. but there is hope and the pain does lessin i would say a hair at a time please know that i am here if you want to talk
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I know how you feel I still find my self do the same things and thinking today I would be..... months along. I will always miss my baby but, I to have found hope that one day my angel will come back to me. I found that what helps me is a special necklace of a butterfly that I wear so I do have something to touch to help me not have that empty feeling.
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Ksurbrook: I thought I was the only one that was still finding myself putting my hand on my tummy.

Hayleys just take it one day at a time. Mine happened a week ago and I just feel so empty. It is starting to get a little easier
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I keep feeling my belly too, to feel if its getting bigger, I know at which point I should have felt the baby move, my next scan, glowingly getting bigger I am just dredding christmas as a lot should have happened around this time
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It has been three weeks for me and at times it is still hard for me to relize tht I am not pregnant anymore, even to look at my friends that are pregnant is hard to do because you think that is what I should look like, give it time everyone keeps on telling me that and it is getting a little better, best of luck
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IVE LOST TWO BABIES IN SEVEN YEARS. MY RESENT WAS JUNE 2007. I FELT HORIBLE NO ONE UNDERSTANDS HOW I FELT, MY SISTER WAS THE ONLY ONE SHE LOST HER BABY AT 36 WEEKS. AND WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT CKECKING THE TOILET TISSUE I DO IT NOW. WE JUST FOUND OUT IM 7 WEEKS AND SCARED TO DEATH. EVERY LITTLE DISCOMFORT I HAVE I WORRY. YOU NEED ANYTHING IM HERE.
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It has been 6 months since we lost our precious Hayden only 25 short days before his due date. It's strange how time changes things. I remember doing the same things shortly after and then your body adjusts and heals but your heart will be forever changed. As time goes on you will have different reminders that take you back to those precious memories. I try to use them as a way to remember what it felt like to carry a miracle but it isn't always easy. You are all in my prayers.
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It has been almost 5 months since we lost our little Nicholas, and ya know I still find myself looking at my tummy. I was due to have him in November and the pain is still so fresh. I know I went through the ups and downs of the loss. Now I feel like I am heading back to the downs because of his due date coming soon. There is hope. Like I said the ups and downs get less frequent. Remember I am here if ya need me.
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You will worry during your next pregnancy, & it will be hard - but you will manage. There are plenty of us here at DS who are living proof that you can go on to have healthy, happy babies after a loss. I hope that with the love, support & encouragement u find here you will get thru this. Thinking of you...
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