i lost 3 babies over a period of 18 mths years ago and i went on to have another after that i have 3 daughters,i also misscarried twin boys 5 mths ago and am still comiong to terms with it.i also have 9 other lost babies due to abusei had to have them aborted as they were my grandads,so i know what it is like to lose babies.im here if you want to chat.

I am very sorry for your loss. Dealing with a m/c can be the hardest struggle to conquer. There are alot of us here to support you and to lend a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on. I unfortunately do not have a success story yet, but I have not given up hope. This community at DS has given me this strength and courage. Hugs.

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby at home also on Sept 30th - I was about 8 weeks along. Take the time to grieve your loss - it is a big one, and the holidays are bound to be even harder. Be strong! Each day seems a little better...

I'm so very sorry for your loss! Since my loss in Sept., I've learned that miscarriage isn't something you get over but rather something you learn to live with one day at a time. Please take care of yourself as you come to terms with this loss. It will take time.

There is hope for the future. My best friend had a healthy baby girl a year after her miscarriage. I have had a positive pregnancy test and am hopeful of a new baby next year (still too early to tell though).

I will be thinking of you.

I don't have the experience of having my baby at home. I had to have my son at the hospital but I can say having a MC is the HARDEST thing I have ever had to go through. I have had days where I just don't even want to get out of bed. Everything is still so fresh for you. Take time and grieve.

I probably will not have anymore children after my son. I do have other children, but I know LOTS of women that have suffered a MC and had gone on to have a successful pregnancy.

I am truly sorry for your loss.

Your loss is so recent, and your grief so fresh...it is so soon to expect yourself to feel better or "over it." There isn't any getting over it, there is just learning to accept that this has happened and finding the strength and hope to move forward in your efforts to have a child. Keep the faith, though. My first pregnancy was totally uneventful--delivered a healthy baby girl. We were shocked to miscarry our next pregnancy at almost 13 weeks, with no indication of what had gone wrong. We went on to have another normal pregnancy after that miscarriage and had a second healthy baby girl. Since her birth, we have had two more miscarriages (one at 8 weeks, another the same week as your miscarriage this year, 18 weeks along). Give yourself time to adjust to this loss...the loss of the baby, your plans, the blissful ignorance that allows so many women to skip through pregnancy without a care in the world. You lost a lot on 11/22...it will take time to fold this sad experience into your reality. Your odds of a healthy pregnancy next time are so good. Don't forget that. Wishing you peace and success.

Thanks so much. You guys have give us hope! WE are gonna try again in January. So pray for us and think of us.